Whatever this is that’s bugging you, this “thing” that just doesn’t feel right; it might just be that things are changing inside for you – in a good way.
It usually starts as an uncomfortable feeling, a sense that something is wrong, out of whack, not what it should be. Sometimes those feelings are a whisper, just below the surface. Sometimes they’re shouting in your face.
Either way, they get harder and harder to ignore when you are being challenged – more and more – to grow.Continue reading →
I have – so many times it’s not funny. Well actually, it IS funny.
Sometimes very funny.
Once, I drove almost 60 miles on the back roads of my own county, just trying to find my way to a main road. (It’s easy to do that where I live.)
Another time, I wandered almost 100 miles out of my way driving across Virginia. Have I told you that story?
I love traveling, even when I can’t afford the time nor the money to do so. So when I was invited to visit Virginia Beach for a one day workshop that I knew would help my business, I really wanted to go.
I tossed and turned and worked on it in the back of my mind. Flying wouldn’t work – too expensive. Riding a bus wouldn’t work – no direct routes. As for driving, it was too far (at least 9 hours each way) to make sense for a one day event.
“To be honest…that’s really why people come to me.”
She was talking about her attention to detail, and the meticulous way she managed complex legal agreements.
As an attorney whose work often involved extremely complicated agreements between different entities, her work was challenging, to say the least.And it was the kind of work where a mistake could cost someone hundreds of thousands of dollars.
You’d want a detail-oriented person handling that, wouldn’t you? Of course. But in a world where legalese is actually the language of choice, her work stood out. She was careful, thorough, patient, detailed – and very, very sharp.
She was worth every penny she earned – and then some.
But owning the value of that work seemed to make her uncomfortable. It was as if she was apologizing for some quirky flaw.
But her work was nothing to apologize for. It was something to own, and to be proud of.
I’m talking about fear; about all those little self-doubts and worries that block our progress and suck the success right out of our wallets.
Some of them are so strong they practically shout at us. Others are so quiet, you don’t even know they’re there. But they are. And they are often disguised as a perfectly fine, oh-so-logical “reason” for not moving forward in your business.
You could be the exception, of course.
You could be that rare person who sails through the day with nothing but confidence in your skills, with total clarity about your direction, and with peace of mind about your profits.
But you would definitely be the exception. :)
The truth is, no matter who you are, how long you’ve been in business or how many zeroes are at the end of your income, odds are that you, too, have favorite fears that sometimes slow you down. Continue reading →